Depression and Their Advice

Almost a month ago I enrolled for a TESOL Program and it’s one of the best decisions I’ve ever made this year. For someone who is experiencing depression for almost a year and a half (or longer). I need a break from all the drama, anxiety and negativity. I need to be away from people who keeps on pulling me down; from people who are giving me unnecessary attention. I actually came to a point wherein I just wanted to slap these people on their face and have a wrestling match with them just to end what I’ve been experiencing.

Of course, I know that my part in this freaking annoying depression is quite huge. My subconscious mind, the voices on my head got noisier this year and I can’t make them stop. Let me also add the heart breaks, the rejections and betrayals… so tell me who will not feel depressed?

I have been feeling like I am so worthless, that I do not have any purpose in this world, that no matter what I do I will always end up in the exact same place… dark corner of an empty room called FAILURE.

Let me go back to my point. During the past five weeks, I was able to meet new people. People who thought that I was a foreigner, who didn’t know how they’re going to talk to me. I remember that I was reading a book about Japanese Women (An Anthropology book) and I actually felt the same way! I was too shy to talk to them and we ended up smiling and nodding to one another. These people are giving me opportunity to relieve my depression.

I can say that I am more confident in conversing with foreigner and this is the reason why I act and talk as if I’m a member of different kinds of community. Working with Japanese, Korean, Chinese and even Vietnamese allowed me to adopt some of their cultures and customs. Talking with my Canadian uncle gave me an opportunity to broaden my knowledge in English as well as practice my speaking skills.

Okay, going back… First week was over, came the second, third, fourth… fifth. Every week, we have a free talking session after lunch. This is time where our mentors will let us choose a card with questions written on it. Truly, all the cards I pulled contain personal questions such as “How do you cope up with stress?” “Tell about the time when you were disappointed.” “Have you ever felt so lonely in your life?” etc… I answered the questions as precise and concise as possible but they got curious about me.

During break time, they will ask me a lot questions. Last Saturday, my British mentor talked to me and he made a good guess about me:

-          I am an only child.

-          That my father is a military man.

He said that he can understand why I am the way am. He can understand my situation. I rarely meet someone who’s genuinely emphatic towards my situation. I am not saying that my friends are not… but it’s a different kind of empathy. He… they allowed me to talk and voiced out the things on my head, the things that bother my heart because I’ve been having a hard time… no this is the most difficult time of my life because I almost ran out of words to express how I really feel.

I am not going to be dramatic although it will sound one. The months of August and September are the most crucial months. I literally broke (I still am) down and I just want to end everything. I wanted to rest for eternity. I just couldn’t/can’t go on because the emotional pain that I’ve been feeling for quite a long time is eating me all up.

I would sometimes cry in front of my mother and she didn’t really know what to do with me anymore. All I feel is pain and I can’t breathe. It’s too difficult. It’s like my head would explode, my heart would crushed and… I feel so empty. I’m just a blank space, an empty shell, a nobody.

I am traumatized with the bullying I had before and even if I tell to myself that I have already forgiven those people… I can still hear their voices, I can still see my younger self enduring the evil things they’ve done to me. And these experiences caused me to be severe to myself. I am a perfectionist to the point of hurting myself if I make a mistake.

Here’s what they told me.

At first they find me so weird or unique. They said that it was their first to meet someone who devour books like a food, who has a strong mind control, sociable introvert… someone who is ironic.

They told me that I must not care about what other people think about me because at the end of the day, the way I think about myself is the only thing that will matter.

I should try to avoid being pessimist. I have a Master’s Degree, I’m an Accountancy Graduate, I’m an English Instructor, I can speak, I can talk and write deeply, I play instruments, I am not disabled and I inspire people around me… these things are what separate me from other people. If they give me their attention, it only means that I am different from them, if they look and stare at me it only means that I don’t look like the others, if they try to pull me down it only means that I am already ahead of them. If people are avoiding me, I don’t have to feel so bad about it because in building connections and relationships that will last for a lifetime it must be Quality over Quantity.

And it’s really overwhelming because even if it has only been a month since I’ve met them, they are embracing my flaws as if they’ve known me for a long time. They told me that if ever I need someone who will encourage me or at least to lift me up, they are willing to talk to me about self-confidence. And I am very thankful.

I always feel so lonely and I am too shy to ask for someone to accompany me because of my toxic behavior right now. I’ve been talking about death all the time which caused my friends to avoid me. I can’t blame them and I am sorry.

I am afraid… but if I am going to continue like this I might really disappear. But just like what my uncle told me “You’re a clever girl and you are actually strong. Just focus on what you have to do.”

Aside from the fact that I am learning new things, meeting new people… I am also gaining the power to exercise positivity… slowly (well, at least!).

After this TESOL Program, I’m going to continue to study because I am happy whenever I study. And even if there some who ask me why I always study or if I ever feel like I am wasting money in school… I should just try to enlighten them that Education is a continuous process (but I think it will be better to avoid them.)

So there… the question “How are you?” is just too difficult to answer and if ever I acted aloof in replying to you guys… please be kind to me.

Erica.

Any mistakes in grammar? PM me. Thank you.

Birthday Blog Part 1

Happy Birthday to all those people who are celebrating their birthday today (September 6, 2015). I have been writing a birthday blog since... I started this blog.

To be honest, I had a different plan for today. However, due to my unpredictable schedule, I couldn't put it into action. That's why I decided to have a simple celebration in our house.

I hope I'll have an opportunity to do what I planned before this month ends because I've been desirous to do it since the year started. 

Instead of making a wish list for this year, I wrote a Birthday Resolution. I decided to lessen my usage of "I will not" and increase my usage of "I WILL". Obviously, the latter is in positive form and I want to exercise positive things in my life! I am so tired of the darkness.

I WILL BE LESS SEVERE TO MYSELF

My intimate friends know how severe and strict I am to myself. Mind control is something that I do everyday... almost the same as breathing, it's easy for me to resist some worldly things yet it's too difficult to resist things directly related to my emotions. I'm the definition of IRONY. I possess things and traits that are opposite of each other. Reason why only few people can understand me. Okay. Enough!

I WILL GIVE MORE TO MYSELF

Yes, it's true. I've been self-less. I always give and give until I became an empty shell. It's tiring, frustrating... and doing this often deprived me "love" which is truly for myself. I might sound egocentric, believe me I am not.

I WILL BE MORE KIND AND COURAGEOUS

Kindness is an inherent trait, but courage is a trait that you have to develop in order to survive in this competitive world. I know that I lack courage. I am still afraid to step outside my comfort zone. However, I've learned that things which are uncomfortable to do, difficult and seem impossible to achieve are actually the things that will make a person strong. I realized that it's okay to commit mistakes and you don't have to be embarrassed because everyone have been there. Learn from those who are experienced in the trade you are venturing, listen to them and imagine.

So yes, I have a long list and most of them are personal.

I will eat more fruits.

I will drink wine. (For my heart)

(With Mama Nhelz!)

(At the cemetery)

How about you? Have you ever written a birthday resolution?

Have a nice day! but in my case... Good night!

Things that made me happy:

1. Greetings from the people who are important to me! Thank you.
2. Eating with my friends, cousins and relatives.
3. New books! (I bought for myself!)
4. Visiting my Grandpapa and my baby brother at the cemetery.
5. Taking funny pictures and videos. (For keepsake)
6. Talking to my friends.
7. My very supportive and self-less mother. I love mama bear!

Three Simple Ways To Spread The Love

I like tea. I LOVE TEA. I just can't stop drinking tea. I am currently drinking Matcha Green Tea at Coffee Bean and Tea Leaf.

The ambiance here, inside, the smell of my tea, the calm conversation of people around me put me into the mood to write something. I'm suppose to read a book, but hey! I miss writing.

So here's my list on Simple Ways To Spread Love. Sometimes, you don't have to spend a single cent to make a difference.

1. Greet a stranger

A simple gesture and greetings such as "Hello!" "Hi!" can lift up the spirit of anyone. You can make a difference to the life of a stranger who is fighting the battle of his life. So spread some love and bring joy. We are all fighting our own battle, but it doesn't hurt to lend a helping hand once in a while. Agree? So go and say "Hi!", wave back, greet those security guards who have just greeted you, say "Welcome" to those people who thanked you and say "Thank you" to those who helped you. Isn't it simple?

I always do this. ALWAYS. I am not bragging about my good deeds. My only aim is to inspire. So, whenever I feel blue, down and kind of sad, instead of spreading this negativity, I try to do things which is opposite of the way I feel.

2. Help elderly people

Do you see the grandma over there, the one who is carrying a heavy bag of groceries. How about the grandpa who is trying his best to cross the street? Or maybe the one who is having some difficulty to go up/down the stairs? The one who can't see the menu?

You know, it's not very hard to lend a helping hand to these elderly people; senior citizens whose five senses are already deteriorating. Now, imagine your own grandma, grandpa, mother, father or relatives out there... isn't it nice if a stranger will help them? Isn't nice to know that there are still people who actually care? That chivalry is not yet dead?

One time, when I was having a terrible day, I saw a group of elderly people waiting for a cab. I was the first in line and they were beside me. I was hungry and I wanted to go to my mother's office as soon as possible to visit her and eat my lunch. When I saw these senior citizens, I was like "Okay, I'll let them ride the cab first." Why? Because it's very obvious that they were all so tired and hungry too. And yes, I let them ride first. I am younger and I could still endure my situation. After that, they thanked a million times and one grandma was even teary eyed. They said "God Bless you Child!". Maybe some will call me a hypocrite, but you know... I've felt really blessed when I helped them.

3. If you're a woman/girl, be nice to one

Aren't you tired of cat fighting? Aren't you sick and tired of finding fault and flaws on her? Do you want to be yourself ? Do you want to stop comparing yourself with others? Hey! You are what you are. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. Look in the mirror and tell that to yourself, every day. It should be your mantra. Please... I am begging you, do not let yourself be defined by others definition.

I know that "Just be yourself!" is already overly used, but it's true. You are fine. Smile. You should start embracing your flaws and do not forget who and what you are. You should know your own value. If you feel beautiful in the inside, it will definitely reflect on the outside.

Now, do you see that woman who is having a difficult time wearing high heels? Do you see her blisters? If you ever have an extra band-aid, why not give it to her? Share. I think you already know how difficult it is to wear those kind of shoes. How about the one who is sweating so hard? Give her a tissue. It's not that difficult to share... SHARE. Because I know you that know how hard it is being a woman.

Now, it's time for you to share you own simple ways to spread the love.

Have a good day!

Sincerely,
Erica/Erix

Things that made me happy:

1. Tea day!
2. Reading books.
3. That I am still alive.
4. That my parents are in good health.
5. That my friends and relatives are fine.
6. Playing guitar.
7. Self studying keyboard.
8. Listening to classical music.
9. Reading articles about Corporate world.

Homebody's Weekends

To all the Homebodies out there, maybe some of you can relate to how I usually spend my weekends. I can't even remember how many times I've rejected and cancelled some plans to go out. I do like going out, believe me or not, but I want my weekends to be all about myself. Spending my whole weekdays outside makes me tired everyday Friday. Who doesn't? But yes, I know that most of you, especially the outgoing types are always on the go. That's just not me.

1. Cleaning Time/Day

I am not a messy person, but I am astounded every time I go home and find my room in disarray. My Study/work table with all my books on the top. Clutter of papers on my bed. Tea cups and glasses on my chairs.

If you're one of the people who enjoy cleaning and organizing the mess you made, then maybe you find it satisfying to see the process of turning back your mess into an organize piles of your things.

As for me, Saturdays or Sundays can only mean one thing. Cleaning time.

1. Changing my pillow cases (Once a week)
2. Changing my bed sheet (Twice a month)
3. Changing my curtains (Once to twice a month)\
4. Scrubbing the floor (Once a month)
5. Dusting off my bookshelves (Every other day)
6. ETC.

How nice it is to feel and smell the new pillow case and bed sheet at night, to see your books void of dust (just a little) and to see that your room is organized.

2. Exercise

Weekends can also mean shaking off all the toxins in your body by sweating off. I find it relaxing and refreshing every time I finish my exercise or fitness routine because I feel clean. Imagine your sweat pushing off the dead skins from your pores. You feel great, you feel healthy and strong and it's a great brain exercise too. So shake it off and dance with your favorite music in the background.

Here's a great warm up from Tiffany Rothe Youtube account. I've been following all her routines for almost two years now. I love how she motivates her viewers. I just like her so much! Want to be fit by just ten minutes? Visit her account and try her routines.

3. Meditate

Aside from my exercise routine, I also meditate. I'm not very particular with time, but I see to it that I relax my senses so that I can be ready for the coming week. Yoga is a great help, the breathing exercise. Stretching your body is good for your health and mind. It practices your sense of focus and helps you concentrate. You don't have to be in nature to do this. Inside your room, open your window, the air enters, spread your yoga mat, then close your eyes. Breathe in. Breathe out.

4. Cook/Eat Real Foods

I know that most of you are eating at fast food chains every weekday. It's convenient, fast and cheap...  because you guys are busy with your job and studies. However, do not let this time constraints let you be addicted to all that is instant; instant food. These foods contain preservatives that can harm your body by too much intake. C'mon! Even if the label says it's "Sugar free" or "Lite" they still contain sugar, sodium and MSG (Monosodium Glutamate). Some of you might already be aware of how some food manufacturers use Aspartame as a replacement for sugar. If you ever stumble upon Dr. Mercola's website, he had listed all the negative effects of Aspartame and it's scary how it can trigger diabetes instead of preventing it.

Foods that I can't live without:

1. Papaya (1-2 cups a day)
2. Firm Tofu (Fried in olive oild with vinegar dip)
3. Pumpkin soup
4. Boiled sweet potato / Sweet potato fries (No salt or sugar)
5. Green Tea (2-3 cups a day)
6. Boiled green vegetables
7. Oatmeal (no sugar)

I am very proud to tell you that I've been SODA FREE for 7 years now. Indeed, eating REAL foods can make a person feel clean inside and out.

5. Me Time

It's time to pamper yourself by not spending too much money.

1. Dry hair? Use olive oil. (Click for procedure: Natural Hot Oil)
2. Tired feet from wearing high heels shoes or stiletto, rough feet. Soak it into a basin with lukewarm water, scrub it with baking soda, pat them dry ,then slather with olive oil or Rosehip oil.
3. Cut and polish your nails while listening to some music or watching your favorite movie.
4. ETC... whatever you want to do that you can do by yourself for yourself.

Because sometimes, it feels nice to do things for yourself without spending money at all.

6. Read a Book

Okay. Oh, you're not a bookworm. You always fall asleep whenever you read. However, you have to remind yourself that knowledge is power and knowledge is beauty. You don't have to read books you're not interested with. Read something you want, gain knowledge and use them in real life. Aside from that, it can help to be more open-minded.

Those are some things I usually do in the weekends. How about you?

Personal Message:

It's been a long time since my last post. I've been trying to pursue my dreams one by one. Right now, I wish that my prayers will be answered before this month ends. If not? I will try again. No giving up. I'm going to be more determined in chasing dreams. So yeah. Have a good day!

Sincerely,
Erica/Erix

Things that made me happy:

1. Cleaning my room.
2. Eating the pumpkin soup made by my mother.
3. Playing instruments.
4. Reading books.
5. That I am still alive.
6. That my parents are in good health, as well as my friends.
7. That my emotion is surprisingly stable.

I thought I was "already" fine... But.

"You're beautiful." 
"You're so pretty."
"You're sexy."

Do you think every time people tell me these I feel happy? NO. The answer is a big NO. I feel bad to be honest. I feel bad for them because they see someone who doesn't exist in reality. What they perceive is just the "Fake", "Pretender", "Liar" version of me. I feel sorry for them and I want to apologize because they were all mistaken. I am sorry.

Today, I realized how ugly I am. Something happened that enlightened me. I can't explain them all in details but it made me feel so bad for myself and for everyone.

I am not what you think I am. I am not what you usually see. I am a monster... physically and emotionally. Sometimes, I have thoughts which make me want to cut off myself into pieces, to discard some parts of my body that is very uncomfortable for me to show and to carry.

I wish I have what it takes to be comfortable. I just want to feel comfortable. Whenever I see girls and women who look carefree, I feel so envious. I wish I am like them... carefree and... FREE. However, I am always hunted by the hands that will pull me to the reality that I am not like them... that this is me. Once in a blue moon, they'll let me pretend to be someone I am not. But it hurts a lot when it's already time to go back to normal. I always pray that God will lengthen my time of  "Pretension", but everything eventually has to end. Everything has an expiration dates. And the things I have had already expired.

I am always covered by mask. I am always myself... but I am at the same time covered by different mask. I show them my true self, but what they see is a different person. I feel sorry for them... for myself. I feel terribly bad.

Last month was the happiest month I've ever had and I thought I was getting better... that I am on the road of moving forward. But the darkness outrun me again. My vision is getting blurry... and I can't breathe.

I can't... I am drowning.

Someone woke me up from my sweet dreams... every happy things that had happened were all part of my dreams. And now that I finally woken up... I have to start all over again. I think if this will continue, if this cycle will continue I'll end up tired and will disappear from the sight of everyone else. Hibernate... or rest...

I am praying so hard for guidance because I really don't know how am I going to start from scratch again. I am so tired and beaten. I AM TIRED. I've been enduring this and if I'll push myself to my limits again, I think I'll explode one of these days. So help me God. Help me please.

PS:
It's not about my job.
I bet a lot people will be so happy when they read this. The ERICA is in her dark side again.

Depression is not a JOKE.

How are you doing everyone?

I think it's not a secret anymore that I've been depressed and anxious since last year... or should I say since December of 2013. Re-reading my diary entries helped me to pin point when and how I developed this constant depression. Elaborating the causes would make this entry very long.

I remember that one of my college friends told me that getting out from the deep abyss of depression would be the most difficult task a person will ever face. Finding your way out would be like solving a cross-word puzzle written in another language. It would be like choosing one path among a number of paths ahead of you. It would be like choosing to listen to one voice inside your head. Complex, perilous, difficult. These are the things that I am facing right now.

Depression is not just about feeling sad. It is more than that. Way way more than that. Imagine a thin pin piercing through each veins in your heart. You'll find yourself hyperventilating without knowing the reason. You'll feel an invisible hands choking you. You'll find that the air is too thick for you breathe. You'll find yourself floating in nowhere and a bunch of bubbles would burst out causing you to be thrown away in high speed somewhere far far away. You're like a piece of paper being teared out. You're like a piece of chalk being crushed. You're like a glass being broken, thrown and crushed. The cycle will keep going on and on. It is as if you are blind folded most of the time. All you can see is darkness.

I can't even express myself. I can't put into words how depression controlled my life for the past years. In business, I'm like a company approaching bankruptcy for I am experiencing continues losses despite the fact that my assets are still greater than my liabilities.

It has been said that there are people who can find happiness in sadness. However, I can say that there are people who can decide to use sadness and turn it into a "happiness". Life exploits us and in turn we must exploits it too. Whatever wounds, pain and heartbreaking events we experienced; whether we lost something... every thing happens for a reason. No scratch that, you have to find reason for every thing that has happened. 

I wear masks, too many masks to veil the ugly face of depression. I chose to conceal the wrinkles, scars and fresh wounds inflicted by it so that people would not judge me and call me crazy. I chose to wear these masks because showing them my real face will make me look like a beggar asking for some pity. But you know what? I don't need pity. I don't want it. What I desire is acceptance. That's all.

I know that to be understood by others is impossible or at least the possibility is low. That's why I chose this isolation because I realized that pushing myself to be a happy and outgoing person like them, to be "liked" by others would mean discarding more than half of my identity.

I love myself. I like what I do. My hands are able to create something that would take me out from this prison cell even for a second... But others don't like it. Nowadays, I don't care anymore. I don't want to mind them or even to look at them. I don't want to talk to them. I want to CUT ALL THE TIES because I AM SO TIRED. I am truly tired. I am so tired to be treated like a piece of crap because I AM NOT A CRAP. 

I know that there are still others who talk behind my back (beware, for the walls have ears), who criticize me and insult me but I have already decided to let them be. Time is precious. Time is money. I don't want to waste my very important intangible resources to something or someone who will not help me to improve. I had enough of them.

It is difficult to ignore, yes, it's true. I have been blessed with a powerful sense of hearing and I can hear them talking about me. Even if I can't control what I can hear... I can make the things they say against me into an inspiration towards improvement. You should do this too. You can do it. And I know you will.

Some people consider us depressed as someone who is on the verge of INSANITY. We are not. Insanity and depression are different things. We are not INSANE.

Although I can only see a tiny bright light ahead of me, I know that I can get out from here. Slowly it may be... I am patient and I can endure... I will endure.

It is DIFFICULT. Tremendously complicated and it always pains me. It is a heavy burden that I am always carrying. I am in constant look out for it because I don't want it to fully enter my doors. Depression is like a shadow outside my four walls. 

The next time you see me smiling, do not jump into a conclusion that "All is well." Don't ever make fun of depression because I am telling you it's a serious thing. If you have nothing to say good to us, better shut your mouth. We've been carrying too heavy burden already, don't make yourself a burden to us. And if ever you don't care, I can understand, because "How could someone who hasn't been there possibly understands?"

Each one of us has his/her own problem/s, and each of us has the right to feel "problematic". Stop saying  "My problem is worst than yours." Because it will only make us feel that we don't have any right to to feel what we want to feel.

Have a good day everyone.

Sincerely,
Erica/Erix

2015 First Quarter Movies

I've been Vlogging a lot lately. So I decided to share here the movies I've watched from January to March. Let's get started.

JANE EYRE 1996

Okay, I'm a Jane Eyre fan. I've watched the other versions (1943/44 and 2011) of the movie and read the book twice. I can't get enough of Jane and Mr. Rochester. I can't get enough!!!!!!!!!!!! I want to meet my own Mr. Rochester. :) Anyway, The actors in this movie didn't have the chemistry I've seen in 2011 version starring Mia Wasikowska... the story line is quite different from the book. Nevertheless, the essence was still there so it's quite okay for me. The 2011 version is still the best.

SHAME 2011

I watched this movie without knowing the synopsis. I just want to see it when I saw Michael Fassbender and Carey Mulligan's name. While watching... I was honestly a bit surprised but I got carried away by the actors acting and the story line. I was not into the physical action but I found myself watching them behind their actions (Mentally and emotionally). My mind was full of questions about "Why does he do it?" "Can't he control himself?" "Oh this man needs help...". This movie made me aware about things men have in their minds... their darkest thoughts about sexual relationship.

REBECCA 1940

I'm a fan of Laurence Olivier ever since I found out that he was Vivien Leigh's husband, who played Scarlett O'hara in 1938 "Gone with the Wind" movie. Oh yes! He also played Hamlet in 1948 Hamlet. However, I find him more effective as an actor in Rebecca when he played as Mr. De Winter. The chemistry between him and Joan Fontaine was fantastic. I've felt every single emotion they tried to express. And by the way, Joan Fontaine is one of my favorite classic actress who played Jane Eyere in 1943 Jane Eyre. :) If you are into classic film... I suggest this one. Alfred Hitchcock was the director; my all time favorite director.

CITY OF BONES

Young Adult. I'm not into YA anymore but once in a while I read them and watch them... uhuh... Jamie Campbell Bower was the reason why I watched this movie. When I saw him playing guitar and singing in Youtube, I made a research about him. He has good voice and he plays well. I'm a fan! :) Alright, the movie. I don't really know what to say. I enjoyed watching it but I felt like it lacked something that I still can't point out until now. The store line is okay, I was not like "Whoa" and didn't go "Kyah! Kyah!". Nevertheless, this movie made me appreciate the beauty of Lily Collins. I haven't read the series yet but I plan to. :) I wonder if they will continue the movie adaption. I am looking forward. I hope.

TESS OF THE D'URBERVILLES 1998

Thomas Hardy fan, anyone?! Oh yes, ME. The movie is quite good, no scratch that. The movie was excellent! Let me be honest. At first, I had thought that it would be boring because of the narrator. I'm not used in hearing narrator in the movies who is different from the actors. I was quite surprised when I found myself crying during a certain scene. This movie literally broke my heart. In the book, I despised Alec D'urberville A LOT! but in the movie, I fell in love with the character and I came to hate Tess a little bit. This movie made me cry thrice. It was way way too good.

JUDE 1996

I didn't know that Jude the Obscure has a movie adaption! I like this movie so much. The grotesque scene, is I can consider as the most grotesque I have seen involving children. I wasn't able to sleep for two nights because the scene was haunting me. I kept seeing the faces of the children and the reaction of Jude and Sue (Kate Winslet). However, they didn't follow the story line... as always. I love this movie.

THE RAG NYMPH 1997

I don't know why I watched it. Aside from I didn't like the story at all because it lacked many things that I always look for in a movie... the actors were not quite good... for me. However, I appreciate them. It's true. This movie made me aware about the different English accent in UK. :) I personally like the Geordie accent even if it's quite hard to understand. :) Additionally, the movie was convincing because the little Millie and the teenage Millie looked the same. According to my research, the actress who played the characters are actually sisters in real life. Little Millie is Perdita Watts who played Mary Boleyn in The Tudors series.

TRAP FOR CINDERELLA 2013

Okay, please... can anyone find me the book? I didn't know that this movie was based on a novel. Right, going back to the movie. I enjoyed it. It made me curious and used my analytical skill. Although I was able to predict the ending, the strangeness of the story line made me happy. :) I love strange things. The stranger, the better. Besides Aneurin Barnard is so handsome. Just so you know, he played King Richard III in White Queen Series and he looks like Elijah Wood... the handsome version. :)

CINDERELLA 2015

Although Snow White is my favorite Disney Princess, I like Cinderella too. :) "Have Courage and Be Kind." I watched this movie with my Japanese Bestfriend Rino. I was about to suggest this movie when she told me that she wanted to see it. I was so happy! The movie is good and Helena Bonham-Carter played as the fairy godmother! I love it! The Prince is handsome but not handsome enough for me. My taste is different. I prefer the Huntsman. Hahaha! Anyway, the movie was enjoyable, the effects were good, I like the dress and shoes and of course the moral lesson of the story. Cate Blanchett was convincing as a villain. I wanted to slap her face for being so cruel! Have you already watched this?

CINDERELLA (Aschenputtel) 1989

All right, another version. This movie is pretty hilarious. The Stepmother was so funny and the stepsister was more beautiful than Cinderella. The father was so insensitive and the Prince was... never mind. However, a lot of reviews said that this movie followed the exact story from Brother Grimm's book. Unfortunately, I couldn't find anything about Petra Vigna who played Cinderella. Is she still alive? Where is she now? She has beautiful fingers though. :)

SNOW WHITE (Schneewittchen und das Geheimnis der Zwerge) 1992

The most beautiful Snow White I've ever seen! But I was surprised about the story. 
It's different from what I have known. It's good. The Jester is really good looking. I guess most
Italians are. :)

So there you go. These are movies I've watched for the first quarter of 2015. I'll be back again
next time.

Have a good day!

Sincerely,
Erica/Erix

Things that I am grateful for:

1. That my room is finally clean.
2. That my bookshelf is finally clean.
3. Writing this entry.
4. Talking about books.
5. Reading, writing... playing guitar.
6. That my parents are in good health.
7. That my friends are in good health.
8. That I am still alive and have the chance to improve myself more.