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Last Thursday, a friend of mine tagged me in a post. She asked me the question above and here's my answer:

Hi J****! Love is full of conflict because Love is associated with various types of feelings. Everything around us revolves in it. Life needs equilibrium. Same thing with love. If Love is all about the good things, all about smile and saying "I love you"... one will never realize the true meaning of it. Imagine a dessert without an oasis, imagine the night without the moon and stars. The world will be monotonous. The sound is only "do" ... re, mi, so, la, ti, do will never exist.  Love needs to be challenged to fully understand its meaning. So that two people may realize that love is not as simple as lust. Yes, distance is only physics and I strongly believe that if two hearts feel the same way and are really mutually connected, distance will never matter. However, time constraint, temptation, lust are in the way and these things serve as instruments to balance things out. Love is pain. Love is patience. Love is about endurance and tolerance and love is about being true and playing the strings using his/her and your hands.

Many people speculate that I don't know anything about LOVE and Man-woman Relationship. Believe it or not... some people told me that I am a ROMANTIC person. The reason? Because I'm artistically inclined. Art is part of me and an artist will never be able to create an ART without emotions and feeling which are associated to love and other feelings. As I have said... everything around us revolves in it. Love is UNIVERSAL. You can love a child, an animal, a friend, someone or anyone... you can love your job, what you do, your hobby and everything that surrounds you. Love is everywhere...

As for being a ROMANTIC person, again... believe it or not, people usually ask me for my ideas on what they should do to attract the attention of the girl or man they like. What song to sing, to play... I even helped people write their love letters, helped them through giving my honest and sincere ideas.

I am not selfish with regards to helping them find their love. Why? because it makes me happy to see them happy. I'm contented with all the positive result of my efforts.

Where did my creative ideas come from? They came straight from my heart. Every idea is the idea that I want to do to someone someday. This person, whoever he is... I can write him poems everyday, write him song, play every song that he likes, write him letters, cook him food, etc.

I know, I know... they're CHEESY ideas but this is me... I can only share things that I am somehow good at. Additionally, I will never expect anything in return because it will erase the meaning of my sincerity.

This blog entry is going nowhere again. Pardon me.

I'll end it here.

Have a good night. I will read a book now. Hugs everyone!

I'm looking forward to MARCH 15. <3

Sincerely,
Erica/Erix

Things that made me happy:

1. Organic soaps. I got a Tomato and Goat's Milk. I am considering switching to organic soap because I want to decrease the chemical that I am applying on my body. Harmful chemicals that actually damage my skin in the long run instead of helping it to improve. Organic food is already part of my healthy living, so why not include it to my skin regimen? I'll share it next time... if I got an improvement. :)
2. Choco Baby. I seldom eat chocolates but every month I crave for it. It made me happy today, really.
3. Financial Accounting Presentation. One week of sleepless night, panic attack, nervousness... I think they're all worth it because My group mates and I somehow survived despite of our busy schedule. Aside from that, I feel like I gained older sisters during this week. I'm very lucky.
4. Food Shopping in Asian Supermarket. I got lucky when one of my co-workers brought me to this place. It was located near the train station and I didn't know that it was there. I bought three kinds of tea: "Mugicha", "Sencha" and "Oksusu cha". I already tried everything and so far they helped on my metabolism. :) I'll go back there because I will try to cook "Duk boki" or "Tteokbokki " which my mother really likes.
5. Playing guitar in the middle of my stressful and busy week. Playing helped me to relieve my stress.

How about you? What made you happy this week? :)