Someone told me last night that “We think sometimes our life
is simple.” He is right. Most of the times we tend to find ourselves in a
complicated situation wherein life gets difficult. Circumstances are getting more
confusing. You are becoming anxious and worrisome.
There are things in this world that we cannot avoid.
Arguments, fights, wars, misunderstandings., etc. Nevertheless, we should
always remember that everything will eventually be “Okay” if we show the
positive ways on how to conquer our worries, negative thoughts, sadness and self
pitying and turn them into something that will make us confident and a better
person.
My experience:
He told me last night that I’m always in a complicated
situation. He is right again. My life is complicated ever since. Recently, I
was involved into a fight between two groups of people and with all honesty I
think I was the cause of the problem. I made the environment dark and
depressing. People who supported me told me that it was not my fault and that I
was only a victim. However, since I already got used to be in this kind of
situation I already learned the art of being happy.
1. Everybody has their own problem
Do not be too self-centered. Everybody has their own
problems. There are people who are very showy with their emotions but there are
also people who are not and treat their Major problems as something Minor. You know why? Because
if they are going to FOCUS on the problem itself they will never see the
solution for it. You must learn how to treat your problems well. Don’t let it
affect your life too much. There are other things in your life that you should
be focusing on. Try to support the people around you, inspired them, be
inspired and always remember… everybody needs support.
2. Set side negative thoughts by focusing on positive thoughts
I know this sounds hard but you must learn how to
alleviate your attention. Setting aside the negativity will make way for the
positivity. Try to remember the happy things that had happened to you during
the past days. Try to re-read letters that inspired you, emails sent by your
friends, messages from your special someone. Doing simple things will help you
overcome the sadness brought by problems.
3. Be happy and Don't be afraid
Sometimes, people are afraid to face their problems. They
are afraid of the consequences that might happen if they try to confront their
problems. However, you must try how to be confident and fight. Do not be afraid
because there are people who are on your sides, people who are supporting you
and cheering for you. Stand up and do your thing. Do not be afraid of mistakes
because they will teach lessons in life that you will remember. Smile and be
happy with the simple things that you have. Be thankful.
4. Talk with the elders
Talking with the elders will help you open up your
mind and broaden your knowledge about life. Older people have more experiences
and they might already experience the exact thing that you are experiencing
right now. Try to tell them your situation and ask for advice. They are willing
to help younger people on how to move on, go on, let go and give in.
Problems and complicated situations are the secret
ingredient for a wonderful life. Through them, you will learn many things that
will make you push hard and strive hard to know yourself, be yourself and to
love the people who are important to you.
Sunday. Good Luck everyone. I’ve been into many complicated
situation; believe me those things helped me a lot to become the person that I
am right now. I may not be perfect but I know I became a better person compared
to the person I was in the past.
Things that made me happy:
- Communicating with him.
- Having simple and innocent conversation.
- Exercising. Zumba.
- Cloudy weather.
- Studying.
- Cooking.
- Short hair. Yesterday, I cut my hair short. :)
- Singing "Only Exception" by Paramore.
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